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“Marriage is an invitation to
transcend the human condition. For in stepping beyond the self-focus of
wanting to have only our own needs met, in schooling ourselves in the
experience of putting another human being and his or her needs in a
position of equal value to our own, we touch the web of transcendence,
the presence of the Divine.”
“I will love
you
“Startled awake at this late
and unexpectedly beautiful hour, long after sorrow, long after love,
long after hope, I receive you in the breath of my soul to make my light
with you, to fill with joy my glad heart, and to love you far more and
dearly than ever before in all your imaginings you could have imagined;
with the sight of my eyes, with the wings of my heart, with the milk of
my soul. I have come to you with the plain grace of a small bird to love
you and I will love you, honor you and adore you, and with my body,
console you, and with my mind, embrace the unrepeatable refinements of
your being.”
“I ask you to
bring your deep spirit to this marriage,
“Loving one another is the
beginning of compassion…The compassionate, soul-changing loving of a
single other human being connects us most profoundly to the All. And it
is in the practice of this radiant, other-discovering love that true
marriage calls forth the best in us, the most we can become.”
“Women bring us
back into communication with the eternal source,
"I want to know what you ache
for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing...I want to
know if you will risk looking like a fool for love; for your dream; for
the adventure of being alive."
“The real news
on this planet is love – why it exists, where it came from,
“My love, I
waited so long for you that I had begun to believe there was no such
thing as true love, that my life would be lived out alone, that nothing
precious would come in the form of someone to love. Finally, after so
many sorrows and missteps and losses, after I had given up all hope, you
were given to me like a miracle,
“Here all
seeking is over, the lost has been found, a mate has been found to share
the chills of winter – now Love asks that you be united. Here is a place
to rest, a place to sleep, a place in heaven. Now two are becoming one,
the black night is scattered, the eastern sky grows bright. At last the
great day has come!
“When we were
apart, I heard a voice, soothing my fearful heart,
“For one human being to love
another human being: that is perhaps the most difficult task that has
been entrusted to us, the ultimate task, the final test and proof, the
work for which all other work is merely preparation. Loving does not at
first mean merging, surrendering, and uniting with another person – it
is a high inducement for the individual to ripen, to become something in
himself, to become world in himself for the sake of another person; it
is a great, demanding claim on him, something that chooses him and calls
him to vast distance. Once the realization is accepted that even between
the closest people infinite distances exist, a marvelous living
side-by-side can grow up for them, if they succeed in loving the expanse
between them, which gives them the possibility of seeing each other as a
whole and before an immense sky.”
“You’ve been
somebody long enough. You spent the first half of your life becoming
somebody. Now you can work on becoming nobody, which is really somebody.
For when you become nobody there is no tension, no pretense, no one
trying to be anyone or anything. The natural state of the mind shines
through unobstructed
”Love is a great thing, a
great good in every way; it alone lightens what is heavy, and leads
smoothly over all roughness. For it carries a burden without being
burdened, and makes every bitter thing sweet and tasty. Love wants to be
lifted up, not held back by anything low. Love wants to be free, and far
from all worldly desires, so that its inner vision may not be dimmed and
good fortune bind it or misfortune cast it down. Nothing is sweeter than
love; nothing stronger, nothing higher, nothing wider; nothing happier,
nothing fuller, nothing better in heaven and earth; for love is born of
God.”
“Whoever loves
true life, will love true love.”
“In love are we made visible,
as in a magic bath, we are unpeeled to the sharp pit so long concealed. With
love’s alertness, we recognize the soundless whimper of the soul behind
the eyes. A shaft opens and the timid thing at last leaps to surface
with full-spread wing. The fingertips of love discover more than the
body’s smoothness. They uncover a hidden conduit for the transfusion of
empathies that circumvent the mind’s intrusion. In love are we set free,
objective bone and flesh no longer insulate us to ourselves alone. We
are released and flow into each other’s cup, our two frail vials
pierced, we drink each other up.”
“Sometimes our life reminds
me of a forest in which there is a graceful clearing, and in that
opening, a house, an orchard and garden, comfortable shades, and
flowers, red and yellow in the sun; a pattern made in the light for the
light to return to. The forest is mostly dark, its way to be made anew
day after day, the dark richer than the light and more blessed provided
we stay brave enough to keep on going in.”
“Marriage is more than just
the sentimental formalizing of a feeling. It is a vote of confidence,
indeed of conviction, that the romantic feeling of love will be enlarged
to encompass far more than itself; that both persons will be able, in
time, and within the sacred circle of marriage, to infinitely expand.”
“Love is life’s highest
destiny,
“How do I love
thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and
height my soul can reach, when feeling out of sight for the ends of
Being and ideal Grace. I love thee to the level of everyday’s most quiet
need, by sun and candlelight. I love thee freely, as men strive for
Right; I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise. I love thee with
the passion put to use in my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose with my lost saints – I love
thee with the breath, smiles, tears, of all my life! – and, if God
choose, I shall but love thee better after death.”
“We drop like
pebbles in the ponds of each other’s souls, and the orbit
"Men always want to be the first love of a woman.
“I do not
offer the old smooth prizes, but offer rough new prizes. These are the
days that must happen to you: You shall not heap up what is called
riches; you shall scatter with lavish hand all that you earn or achieve.
However sweet the laid-up stores, however convenient the dwellings, you
shall not remain there. However sheltered the port and however calm the
waters, you shall not anchor there. However welcome the hospitality that
welcomes you, you are permitted to receive it but a little while, afoot
and lighthearted, take to the open road, healthy, free, the world before
you, the long brown path before you, leading you wherever you choose.
Say only to one another: Camerado, I give you my hand! I give you my
love, more precious than money. I give you myself before preaching or
law. Will you give me yourself? Will you come travel with me?
“When we love,
we bring out the most beautiful parts of the other person. That’s real
magic.”
“It is
difficult to know what to do with so much happiness. With sadness, there
is something to rub against, a wound to tend with lotion and cloth. When
the world falls in around you, you have pieces to pick up, something to
hold in your hands, like ticket stubs or change. But happiness floats.
It doesn’t need you to hold it down. It doesn’t need anything. Happiness
lands on the roof of the next house, singing, and disappears when it
wants to. You are happy either way. Even the fact that you once lived in
a peaceful tree house and now live over a quarry of noise and dust
cannot make you unhappy. Everything has a life of its own; it too could
wake up filled with possibilities of coffee cake and ripe peaches, and
love even the floor which needs to be swept, the soiled linens and
scratched records…Since there is no place large enough to contain so
much happiness, you shrug, you raise your hands, and it flows out of you
into everything you touch. You are not responsible.
“Love. What a small word we
use for an idea so immense and powerful it has altered the flow of
history, calmed monsters, kindled works of art, cheered the forlorn,
turned tough guys to mush, consoled the enslaved, driven strong women
mad, glorified the humble, fueled national scandals, bankrupted robber
barons, and made mincemeat of kings. How can love’s spaciousness be
conveyed in the narrow confines of one syllable?...Love is an ancient
delirium, a desire older than civilization, with taproots stretching
deep into dark and mysterious days…The heart is a living museum. In each
of it galleries, no matter how narrow or dimly lit, preserved forever
like wondrous diamonds, are our moments of loving and being.”
“When passion burns within
you, remember that it was given to you for a good purpose.”
“Now you will feel no rain,
for each of you will be a shelter to the other.
“O Morning
Star!
“I love you, not only for
what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you, not only
for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I
love you, for the part of me that you bring out; I love you for putting
your hand into my heaped-up heart and passing over all the foolish, weak
things that you can’t help dimly seeing there, and for drawing out into
the light, all the beautiful belongings that no one else had looked
quite far enough to find. I love you because you are helping me to make
of the lumber of my life not a tavern, but a temple; out of works of my
every day, not a reproach, but a song.”
“I could open
the doors and the windows to great winds,
“Go deeper than
love, for the soul has greater depths.
“Blessed are
the man and woman who have grown beyond themselves and have seen through
their separations. They delight in the way things are and keep their
hearts open, day and night. They are like trees planted near flowing
rivers, which bear fruit when they are ready. Their leaves will not fall
or wither. Everything they do will succeed.”
“The minute I heard my first
love story,
“You and I
have so much love that it burns like a fire, in which we bake a lump of
clay molded into a figure of you and a figure of me. Then we take both
of them, and break them into pieces, and mix the pieces with water, and
mold again a figure of you and a figure of me. I am in your clay. You
are in my clay.”
“I don’t
love you as if you were the salt-rose, topaz or arrow of carnations that
propagate fire. I love you as certain dark things are loved, secretly,
between the shadow and the soul. I love you as the plant that doesn’t
bloom and carries hidden within itself the light of those flowers, and
thanks to your love, darkly in my body lives dense fragrance that rises
from the earth. I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you simply, without problems or pride. I love you in this way
because I don’t know any other way of loving but this, in which there is
no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so
intimate that when I fall asleep, it is your eyes that close.”
____________________________________________________________________ Romance Tip #1: Always have a full supply of candles around and light them nightly. Romance Tip #2: Talk to your partner while he's sleeping; touch his cheek and tell him you love him. Romance Tip #3: Spend an evening in romantic silence -- no words allowed; just body language. Romance Tip #4: Share a bowl of ice cream in bed. |
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